First Message Generator
Blanking on an opener? Paste their profile, a prompt they wrote, or the last message you got, pick a tone, and get a first message that gives them something real to reply to.
Need more than 3/day? Get openers tailored to each match — and the reasoning behind why they work — in WingmanAI.
What makes a good first message
- Reference something specific from their profile — it shows you actually read it.
- Ask something open-ended that’s easy and fun to answer.
- Skip “hey” and “how’s your day” — they give nothing to work with.
- Match their energy: playful with playful, warm with warm.
This writes the opener. WingmanAI tailors it to each specific match and coaches you through the conversation that follows.